Life changes, when we do. We heal when we want to. No one else has the power to change our lives, other than we ourselves. The moment we take charge of lives, universe also conspires to make it easy for us, as its soul purpose is to make easy, and joyous for us, to grow, live and be. Once we have done that, and healed and become whole, its time to serve the 'whole', to use our personal power to serve all that is. And that is how we grow and so does the Universe in us and beyond us.